A Little Bit About Me
Educated, intelligent, funny, kind, open minded, reliable and excellent cook.
I am attractive and look much younger than my age. I have very fair skin, medium height, medium built with very light brown eyes and I wear hijjab.
One of my best qualities is my nurturing nature and I get so much pleasure in looking after the people I love. I also have a very strong sense of justice so I am careful not to transgress against other but also I don't like people to transgress against me or others. I also don't do things half-hearted or half baked. When I take on doing any task I try to do it to my best ability. I believe in constant growth and life long learning. I am constantly learning new languages and skills. I would love to meet someone who is eager to live this life to the full, of course, within the boundaries of Islam.
Religion is very important to me and I am fluent in Arabic but I am not Arab. I understand that for a marriage to work both parties have to share similar values and belief. I believe in the importance of moderation in Islam. Which means having a justly balanced way of life, avoiding extremes and experiencing things in moderation. I am going through this journey of finding the right partner inshallah and I would like to share with you this quote: "The problem is that we have a list for the one that we want but we don’t have a list for what we need to become. And I don’t mean become to attract, I mean become to just be, to just get to understand yourself. You don’t know what you need in your life until you figure out who you are". For me personally, what I crave most in a marriage is connection and when we cease to connect we become apart.
-I know that for so many of us, there is so much anxiety linked to this process. Fear of failure, of failing again, of breaking or shattering hearts or being disappointed or deceived...I believe that the solution to this starts with us. First, we should make the right intentions and second, approach this with hope, optimism and duaa. At the end of the day, people get in relationships not because they think it's going to end but because they think that's the person they're going to be with for the rest of their lives. Finally, I like to mention that my only child is old enough and very independent, so I am free enough to share my life fully, hopefully with someone in similar situation as myself.
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What I Am Looking For
- A respectable and virtuous muslim sunni man. A real gentleman with intrinsic values. A man of complete loyalty and integrity.
- Someone sincere in looking for a serious relationship with a decent woman.
-Someone educated to a degree level, hopefully,someone nerdish like me.
- Someone who doesn't smoke, drink or take drugs or have any sort of addiction. - Someone who has good character. Someone calm, caring, kind-hearted, good to be around, down to earth and genuine.
-I am not looking for a giant nor I ever liked to climb trees.
-Someone like me who is willing to share himself fully and willing to put the necessary work to create a happy, fulfilled, meaningful and worthy life together. Remember that the best of us are those who are good to their families.
-Someone who knows to build bridges instead of walls through effective communication to avoid bitter dissention and contention.
-Someone who uses we, us and ourselves rather than I, me and myself and he is in the service of others.
- There should be balance in everything we do in life so I am looking for someone who balances work with family life.
- I am looking to live a meaningful life that is embedded in truth. I don't like anything two-faced, fake, pretentious, superficial or selfish. Also when you honest and trustworthy you knw how you trust others. I like things that are done with love, with human touch and believe that the happiest of people are the one who give and serve others.
- If you want to have kids, then we won't be suited to each other.
- Looking for a good family where I can spread roots and grow old, wanting arms where I will be safe, loved, valued and cherished for the woman I am.
- As we live in such dark and gloomy weather most of the year, I seek my daily joy in other things in life however mundane they are. Food is one of the biggest joys of my life. I like to talk about it, dream about it,shop for it, cook new recipes, explore new cuisines and of course, I like to eat it and share it around. So a fussy eater will send me to an early grave. Also, I don't think we will be compatible if you don't have a Costco membership.
-I am not looking to relocate north of Yorkshire.
- Please if you have pictures make sure they are recent and clear. I am not interested to see your picture when you were in your twenties. Worst, when people share pictures where they look completely different in every picture leaving me wondering which one they are.
- If you don’t bother to write about yourself and the things you want. How will I know that you will make an effort when we are together?
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