The wound is the place where the Light enters you

Sect
Sunni
Religiousness
Somewhat religious
Profession
IT / Telecom Professional
Marital Status
Divorced
County/State
East Sussex
Country
United Kingdom
Registration Reason
I'm registering to find myself a partner

A Little Bit About Me

Currently I live alone. Self reliant, outgoing, very sporty, strong and independent.

I work as an IT operations manager for a centralised body in the heart of the UK electricity and gas sectors and am hard working, driven and career minded.

I own my own flat in a great, green and leafy part of London with lots of local greenery and wildlife to keep me company.

I do have kids from a previous marriage. They are both boys, 15 and 13 at the time of writing and live up in Yorkshire where I was born and raised. I see them once every three or four months due to the distance and and my life and theirs being so busy. Both very independent and growing up fast. I would expect my future partner to be more like a friend or a mate to them rather than an expected motherly type role. Their mum looks after them pretty well so they won't really need another.

I don't wear religion on my sleeve as such. Lets just say I am spiritual and generally keep my dedication to God and his Prophet PBUH internal and private. I do lean very much towards Sufism. Am totally against extremism and salafi/wahhbism and any literal interpretation of religion by people with little or no knowledge. Islam is supposed to be easy and once you go down the route of approaching it in a dogmatic fashion and treating it as a list of do's and don'ts then you will get stuck in knots. Take it easy and concentrate on the basics before embarking on other deeper paths.

Hobbies - Outside work, I absolutely love music and am self teaching the Piano in my spare time and have completed a series of music production courses. Currently, I'm working on a project with a professional electronic music producer and learning sound engineering, the process that helps make tracks sound professional. Creativity runs in both sides of my extended family, lots of talented artists and poets etc. For me its important to know that each of us has this ability to create and do something memorable. I'm doing this for my personal gratification and to reach another milestone in my life.

I read many profiles where people boast about traveling, which now-a-days most of us have done and continue to do. However, it would be great to hear from someone who has achieved something with their own hands, whether its writing or painting or even volunteering where they have made a a commitment and difference to a good cause etc.

Please feel free to ask any questions or to prod further. Speak Soon!!

What I Am Looking For

A refined personality, educated with charm, a great sense of humor along with a sense of style, a lovely smile and a sparkle in the eyes.

Registration Reason

I'm registering to find myself a partner

Personal Information

Citizenship
British
Country of Origin
United Kingdom
Relocation
None
Looking to Marry
Unsure
Income
25,000 - 50,000
Marital Status
Divorced
Want Children
Unsure
Have Children
Yes
Your Living Arrangements?
I Live Alone
Country
United Kingdom
County/State
East Sussex
Distance
unknown

Appearance

Your Height
1.73m (5' 8")
Your Build
Athletic
Your Hair Colour
Dark brown
Colour of Your Eyes
Brown
Do You Smoke?
No
Do You Have Any Disabilities?
No

Education

Education Level
Bachelors degree
Subject Studied
Engineering

Language

First Language
English
Second Language
Urdu

Work

Profession
IT / Telecom Professional
Job Title
DTS Operations Manager

Religion

Religiousness
Somewhat religious
Sect
Sunni
Hijab/Niqab
Prefer not to say
Beard
No
Are You a Revert?
No
Do You Keep Halal?
I Always Keep Halal
Do You Perform Salaah?
Sometimes