Come from Syed family

Sect
Sunni
Religiousness
Somewhat religious
Profession
Accountant
Marital Status
Divorced
County/State
Oxfordshire
Country
United Kingdom
Registration Reason
I'm registering to find myself a partner

A Little Bit About Me

I was born in Holland but raised in Lahore, Pakistan. I came to England in my late teens and have worked between England and Holland. I work as a financial controller within the hotel industry.

Please note I am a Dutch citizen therefore I do not need any visa etc.

I’m willing to relocate within the UK, for the right person. I don’t have much family here and I feel its important for women to have their families close by.

WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR
The primary quality I am looking for is compassion. In marriage if each partner is not willing to divorce a part of themselves, the marriage can never be a happy one. Nobody goes into a marriage perfect, it’s a learning process. I want somebody with whom I can make a journey together, assisting each other with love and mercy. I want somebody who is mature enough to understand that marriage does not solve everything, that you constantly need to invest and any issues need to be talked over.

From my part you will get someone who is committed and loyal 100%. Someone who is willing to accept their mistakes and make an effort. But we need to both accept each other as we are, the truth of it is that you can only really change yourself, nobody should go into a marriage expecting to change the other. I will need to accept you as you are, and yourself me. I am working towards praying at least one salah in the masjid.

I would ideally prefer someone from the UK (Pakistani/Indian background). I would like a partner who is compassionate, mature, someone who prays and observes hijab (modest in dress and interactions).


MY FAMILY
My parents live in Amsterdam, my father has always been in business and my mother, a teacher. I have a sister who lives in London, and a brother who lives in the US, both are happily married and settled. Our family has always lived in Lahore, but our grandfather hails from Peshawar. He was a former minister in the government of King Amanullah Khan - of Afghanistan -, a prominent businessman in Karachi/Lahore and somebody close to the Ulama.

As a family we never mistreat women, and In Sha Allah never will. We’ve always had a connection to Deen, some family members are more practising than others but there is always mutual respect for each other.


MOVING FORWARD


DIVORCE
I was married for a period of 5 months to a lady from Lahore. I never issued divorce, she said whatever she needed to, in a shariah court to get the marriage annulled without my knowing. A very hurtful episode, I did my utmost to keep her happy but people go into marriage with different expectations.

What I Am Looking For

A compassionate wife with whom I can share this journey of life ; working towards Pleasing our Lord and ultimately being together in Jannah

Registration Reason

I'm registering to find myself a partner

Personal Information

Citizenship
European Union (EU)
Country of Origin
Netherlands
Relocation
Nationally
Looking to Marry
This year
Income
25,000 - 50,000
Marital Status
Divorced
Want Children
Yes
Have Children
No
Your Living Arrangements?
I Live Alone
Country
United Kingdom
County/State
Oxfordshire
Distance
unknown

Appearance

Your Height
1.70m (5' 7")
Your Build
Medium
Your Hair Colour
Black
Colour of Your Eyes
Brown
Do You Smoke?
No
Do You Have Any Disabilities?
No

Education

Education Level
Bachelors degree
Subject Studied
Accountancy

Language

First Language
English
Second Language
Urdu

Work

Profession
Accountant
Job Title
Financial Controller

Religion

Religiousness
Somewhat religious
Sect
Sunni
Hijab/Niqab
Yes Hijab
Beard
No
Are You a Revert?
No
Do You Keep Halal?
I Always Keep Halal
Do You Perform Salaah?
Usually